love yourself first

The universe is a mirror of yourself, whatever you put out there, will come back to you . So do not go searching for love when you are love itself. Accept yourself, love yourself , and love those around you. You will find the universe mimicking this action and surrounding you with love from all directions in every single way.

Do not deny yourself the chance to appreciate love in yourself, and especially do not expect it from someone else. 

Relationships fail when we end up forgetting how to love. Do not ever forget how to love