Open letter to You

Open Love Letter To The Man Who Will Love Her Next~

She is unique. A rare woman, a breed of freedom all her own.

There is no one else like her, a free spirit in her heart she is. 

Don’t be surprised about how quickly you fall for her, and don’t be apprehensive about allowing yourself to fall. 

She won’t catch you, but rather take the plunge with you, holding nothing back.

She values love in it’s entirety and believes in it fully. 

Even if you don’t, she’ll teach you too. 

She believes in fairy tales and happily ever after. Make her your queen and your life will suddenly be made simple. 

She loves flowers, but doesn’t like red roses. But if she had a choice, she’d rather have chocolates to share with you. She believes in chivalry and holding open doors. While she will always offer to pay and even sometimes insist, don’t let her.

Spoil her. Because she’ll spoil you more.

Love her. Because she’ll love you deeper.

Give her your best. Because she will make you better.

She’ll make you the man you want to be. She’ll make you want to be someone worthy of standing next to her.

She doesn’t see her beauty.

 She sees only the beauty of others and of nature all around her. 

But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t stop reminding her of how beautiful you think she is. She’s constantly looking at others, and looking to see what she can do for them. She listens with a keen understanding, even to the things you aren’t saying. And even when you first met, she was probably taking mental notes of your favorite things, thinking about a birthday or holiday, even if it’s far away. She’ll out do you every time with gifts. She’ll surprise you with things, you’ll wonder why she’s doing this, and she’ll reply with a little smile, “just because I can.” This is part of who she is, the loving nature that Life has molded and shaped for her to be.

Some hearts like hers, are just programmed to love. They are so rare to find in this world that she lives in.

She’s not afraid of saying things, doing things. She’s very blunt. That means she gonna catch you off guard a few times, just go with it. She loves exploring, broadening her horizon, learning everything she can and experiencing and seeing all that is allowed to be revealed to her. I’ll admit she’s a little weird. But a good kind of weird, that will make you laugh. Because she doesn’t even know she’s funny sometimes. She only wants to see you happy, to smile. She kind of lives in her own world sometimes, but if you are lucky she’ll let you be a part of it. She’s fun. Like a child she has the ability to turn anything into a game or a competition, but she’s also, unbelievably quick witted, intelligent, and will never make or provide a dull moment to your life. She simply loves life. And enjoys every moment for the blessing and gift that life is.

Enjoy the time with her when it is just you guys. She adores those moments of just the quality time. It is her way of saying, here I am and this is where I want to be precisely -- with you.

Fair warning she makes cooking an art, and loves to experiment to the pleasing of the palette; like a painter adding a bit of this and a tad of that. However, the kitchen can resemble a disaster cyclone hitting when she is done. But that’s only a few of her flaws, if you consider that one. She will always clean it up; for she likes a tidy and comfy home. Also don't introduce her to your mother, unless you are gonna keep her around. You're mother will never forgive you, if you mess it up. Trust me. She is a keeper, and will make you one of the most happiest man alive.

As carefree and loving as she is, there are parts of her life that aren’t as perfect. In due time, she’ll tell you every secret. She’ll tell you exactly why she is the person she is. When she tells you her deepest secrets, I promise you’ll love her more. Hold her, and don’t let her go. Among the things I love most about her, is her strength. She has the ability to get through some of the hardest things that life throws her way. I forged her in my light and my fire.

I’ll let you have her. But just know, the moment you mess up, someone else will be there to pick up the pieces of her broken heart. For I will insure that she will never look back. She is part of me, and follows me endlessly; for the unconditional love that I have bestowed upon her. I only wish for her, her ultimate peace and happiness.

Girls like her are unbelievably hard to find once in a lifetime, let alone twice.

Trust me when I say this, the greatest regret you may experience or have in life, is the one of letting her go. Or being unfaithful to her. She truly is a one of a kind, very rare to find.