Monday 9 March 2015

No restrictions

A friendship between two individuals is like the relationship between the ocean and the rain. For without the ocean, the rain will never come, and yet without rain, the ocean would forever be restless. Too still. Too calm. Too quiet.

They both compliment each other in ways people don't understand.

True friendship is when there are no restrictions with each other

You speak of what's on your mind and you think of the other's welfare when you are about to do something crazy

A friendship has no definition to be described
Millions say it's just someone who's there with you forever
Or just understands you the best

But maybe a friendship is just companionship. A bond that can't be tethered by any normal means. Its so strong that you need only but trust and distance to make it grow. That's when you know you have a real jewel of a friend

A friendship has no limits. Its like riding a car with no destination. Often times we meet people we click with and we end up never thinking of them again. That's when you know you were in the taxi together with a stranger and left in opposite directions.

A friendship needs no words for everything. Often times just being next to each other physically, or knowing that the other is just a phone call or a drive away whenever you need them is enough to make you feel comforted that you have someone to depend on.

A friendship needs no cheering. Sure others look up to you and comment on saying how well we fit each other like two jigsaw puzzle but what makes you stick together is purely your own protective nature over the other. You can't stand it if they get hurt. So you talk to them. As much as possible. Protect them. As much as possible.

A friendship never is perfect. Without fights, it is dull and lifeless. Arguments show that even though heads clash and we snarl at each other and raise our voices, we end up laughing about it or put it behind in a closed notebook. They bring sparks. They're the reason why two friends end up even more bonded for they know they can be themselves. Talk it out
 Fight it out.

But mainly a friendship just means having freedom, or no control. We have to let them go at times because we aren't the only ones for them. I learnt this the hard way and I realize it now. Its for the best when we know we have each other, why not trust them to be with others? In other words, without trust a friendship never lasts. The more you trust each other the more secure you both feel.

It takes time to find a friend as such
But one day
You will
I promise








-3A.M

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